This week I read a quote from inspirational author Rita Schiano, “Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit. Talk about your joys.” How true this is! I often find myself, especially here lately, just focusing on all the bad that has happened. I find myself drowning in my sadness, instead of thinking and focusing on all the wonderful things that are in my life.
I had never thought about focusing on and talking about all the negative things, all the problems in my life, as an addiction, but it truly is! Have you ever noticed that when you are in a group of people and someone starts talking about their problems, everyone will eventually start to join in? Misery truly loves company.
God hates complaining. The Bible is full of examples of how complaining can keep us from being close to Christ. Complaining can keep you away from truly enjoying your Christian life.
Complaining is the opposite of thanksgiving. God expects us to be grateful and thankful in all things. No matter what situation or problem you find yourself in, there is always a reason to give thanks and praise. Philippians 4:11-13 tells us, “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through him who gives me strength.”
Complaining affects the attitudes of others around you. Have you ever worked in an environment where all the employees complained about their jobs and everything else? I know I have, and boy, what a horrible place to have to go every day. Complaining is contagious. When we choose to join in the complaining, we become a stumbling block to others, and we sure aren’t letting the light of Jesus shine through us. Matthew 18:6 says, “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believes in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.”
Complaining implies that we do not trust in God. I have always wondered why the Israelites complained constantly on their journey to the Promised Land. They had been witnesses to so many of God’s miracles, and they still didn’t have full trust that God would provide for them. But, in reality, we do the exact same thing. God has never failed to take care of me and my family, yet I still find myself complaining about mundane things that happen. “Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is Gods will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Most importantly, complaining leaves a bad testimony. How can others see Christ in you when you are constantly filled with a negative mood and bad attitude? You will be the only version of Christ that some people in the world see. It is our responsibility to praise God in all circumstances, and by doing so, we help show others the glory of God. My dear brother who just passed away was better at this than anyone else I have ever met. Even in his 13-year battle with illness, he never once complained. He praised God in all circumstances.
This week’s recipe is sure to warm you up in the chilly fall weather coming our way. It is a deliciously healthy pumpkin soup. It is sure to please your entire family, even those picker eaters, and it is perfect for the fall season. I hope you enjoy this soup as much as our family does.
“Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise His holy name. Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all His benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion.” (Psalm 103:1-4)
October 18, 2024
