All Aboard: Recognizing The Warning Signs

By: Jackie Warner

Imagine boarding a train. At first, the ride is smooth and manageable. Gradually, the speed picks up. It increases again, and then again, until the engine is racing uncontrollably toward a clear derailment.

You see the crash coming. In that moment, you face a critical decision: Do you stay on board out of obligation, fear, or habit? Or do you jump?

Jump!

Taking that leap of faith is not an act of recklessness; it is an act of preservation. Allowing yourself to derail serves no one—not your family, not your workplace, and not your calling. Jumping means choosing your health, your sanity, and your future before the collapse forces a stop for you.

Five Essential Commitments To Protect Your Well-Being

Protecting your peace requires intentionality. To keep your mind, body, and spirit available for what truly matters, integrate these five daily practices:

  • Put yourself on the schedule:
    Build 5‑minute gap time into your day. Pause, breathe, and reset.
    “He restoreth my soul” (Psalm 23:3).
    • Establish boundaries:
    Boundaries protect your peace, your energy, and your purpose.
    “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” (Proverbs 4:23).
    • Use “No” and “Maybe”:
    “Yes” is not the only answer. “No” is holy. “Maybe” is wise.
    “Let your ‘Yes’ be yes and your ‘No,’ no” (Matthew 5:37).
    • Take time off:
    Use your vacation and personal days. Rest is not optional.
    “For so he giveth his beloved sleep” (Psalm 127:2).
    • Leave your desk for lunch:
    Step outside. Change your scenery. Give your mind room to breathe.
    “He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters” (Psalm 23:2).

The Leap Is Not Reckless—It Is Responsible

Culturally, we are often conditioned to believe that rest is selfish and that busyness equals worth. We must reframe this mindset:

Choosing yourself is not selfish—it is necessary.

Protecting your health is not weakness—it is discipline.

Slowing down is not quitting—it is strategic longevity.

Taking care of your mind, body, and spirit is an act of stewardship and wisdom. Life is far too precious to remain passenger on a train you know is headed for a crash. Honor your calling by honoring your capacity. Choose balance, choose peace, and make the leap to protect your well-being.

By: Jackie Warner
Career Development Facilitator
“Impact, Engage, Grow” Community Matters