By: D. A. Slinkard
We are to the letter “D” and our word is Determination; through this word, we can unlock our full potential. Determination is the fuel that drives success, the grit that pushes you forward when obstacles arise, and the resilience that keeps you going when you feel like giving up. Whether you are striving for personal growth, career advancement, or a healthier lifestyle, determination is the key ingredient that separates those who achieve their dreams from those who settle for less.
Determination is not a personality trait you are born with — it is a skill you can develop. It is a skill you can strengthen, and your determination can be applied to every aspect of your life – if you are willing to commit to this.
A determined mind thrives in a clear direction, when we can appropriately set goals and expectations for our lives. Without a goal, it is easy to drift aimlessly, lacking the drive to push through challenges. Take time to define what you want. Is it a promotion? A healthier body? A stronger mindset? Be specific about your goals, write them down, and set deadlines. The clearer your goal, the stronger your determination to achieve it. I want to encourage you to write down three goals you want to achieve in the next six months. Break them down into smaller milestones to track your progress.
In life, challenges and failures are inevitably going to happen, but determined people see them as steppingstones rather than roadblocks. When you encounter setbacks, remind yourself that every failure is a lesson in disguise. Resilience is not about never falling; it is about getting up every time you do. The next time you face a setback, ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” Too many people dwell on disappointment; instead of this, we need to focus on how you can improve and move forward.
Determination is not about feeling motivated all the time — it is about being disciplined even when motivation fades. Successful people do not rely on fleeting emotions to get things done; they create routines and habits that keep them moving forward. To keep the momentum moving forward, identify one habit that aligns with your goal and commit to it daily. Whether it is waking up earlier, exercising, or reading for self-improvement, consistency will build your discipline muscle.
We become those we hang around with, and it has been said, “Show me your friends and I will show you, your future.” The people around you influence your mindset and determination. Negative, doubtful individuals can drain your energy, while positive, driven people can inspire and uplift you. Choose your circle wisely and seek out those who encourage you to grow. It is important for us to evaluate the relationships we have in our lives. Spend more time with people who challenge and inspire you, and limit interactions with those who bring negativity into your life.
Your mind is a powerful tool. When you visualize yourself achieving your goal, your brain starts to believe it is possible. This mental rehearsal increases confidence and strengthens your determination to take action. What would happen if you would spend a few minutes each day visualizing your success? If you can see yourself reaching your goals, really feeling the emotions of accomplishment, and letting that vision fuel your daily efforts, you will notice a change in your life.
True determination means staying committed even when things get tough. There will be days when you feel like giving up, but remember why you started in the first place. Your “why” is the anchor that keeps you going. I recommend you write down your reason for pursuing your goal. When you feel discouraged, read it aloud to remind yourself of your purpose.
Determination is not about being the smartest, the strongest, or the most talented — it is about refusing to quit. It is about pushing forward, one step at a time, no matter how hard the journey gets. As you apply these principles, you will find that determination is not just a mindset, it is a way of life. And when you embrace it fully, there is no limit to what you can achieve.
We have one shot at life and we need to make the most of each day. We cannot get back yesterday and we must be present in the moment. When it comes to your dreams and goals, start today. Set your goals, stay disciplined, and never back down. Your future self will thank you.
By: D. A. Slinkard
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February 21, 2025
